LIVING THE DREAM AT LILLI PILLI LANE

Friday, April 01, 2016

Photos by Linda

Wouldn’t it be awesome to be living the dream? How many of us go about our daily lives, wishing we were doing something else or living somewhere else? Have you ever dreamt of a sea change or a tree change? Some days, do you wish your holiday destination could become your permanent place of residence? My dear friend Lisa is a mum to three teenagers and she’s doing exactly that, she’s living the dream!

Lisa was a vet and city dweller and now she’s an organic hobby farmer, which long was her dream. Her daily companions are cows, sheep, goats, llamas, ducks, chickens, and kangaroos. She and her family live in a solar sustainable house, which she designed, close to one of Australia’s most popular tourist destinations, Margaret River, famous for its majestic beaches, wine, food, art, and culture. Every time I visit her I always get super inspired!

Not only is her home in one of the most picturesque settings in country Western Australia, but she’s living really authentically. Lisa’s a doer. She gets things done. Her farm is called Lilli Pilli Lane, which evokes all kinds of loveliness, and I can promise you, this property is lovelier still. Though let the truth be known, she has yet to plant the Lilli Pillis! It’s on her to-do-list. After all, even a doer can’t do everything at once.

A lot of us have a dream in mind but find it hard to make it happen. We may impede ourselves with our doubts or by allowing other people’s doubts to influence us. Our dream then becomes a fantasy rather than an exciting possibility. But what if we were to act on our dreams, like Lisa? Where would we be then? I was really intrigued to sit and talk with her, to discover what inspired her tree change. What really made moving to the country possible. Is it all that she hoped for. And has she got any wisdom to share with us? 

Our property, Lilli Pilli lane is about 100 acres and it has a creek that runs through about a third of it and a hill. We have dairy cows for milking and calves. I hand raised them, so they’re really friendly. Then they become breeding cows or chops. We have beef cows which provide meat for us for the year and then I sell the rest off to friends. I run the farm as organic. Everything I buy here is certified organic. I don’t use any harmful fertilisers or pesticides on the land. The only fertilisers I use are natural, like seaweed, fish, epsom salts and dolomite but it’s all naturally sourced and sustainable. I grow hay which I sell and it covers some of the cost that goes into caring for the animals.

I’ve done enough research to know that if we just pour on things like superphosphate it’s just like putting a band-aid on a broken leg, it doesn’t fix it. You get a good result from the land for that year but you’re not doing anything good for it underneath. And that’s the reason why I got out of my veterinary career because a lot of what you do is just putting band-aids over things. You’re not addressing the real problem as to why the animal is ill in the first place; like they may have been exposed to chemicals or they’re not being fed right. So, if you get everything right from the ground up it makes a big difference.

I want to nurture the land that we have. We’ve put in about 5,000 trees and shrubs, with help, and there’s more to come. We got grants and we got volunteers in. My next plan is to fence off all the paddocks with hedges of trees; natural natives like gum trees. They act as tree belts. Not only does this offer protection for the animals but it also puts back trees.

We’ve been at Lilli Pilli Lane for four years now. The real benefits of living here are knowing that from the beginning the animal has been treated in a really nice way and it’s not getting any chemicals. Unfortunately, in this day and age, a lot of animals are simply there for human consumption and they don’t have a good life.

I’ve always loved being outdoors and did lots of farm practise on the land when I was younger, and from these experiences, thought it would be great to have my own farm. But I couldn’t do it for a long time because my husband Stewart was tied to his job in the city. He loved his job and there was no way he was going to leave it. So, we continued to live in the city and bought a holiday house in Margaret River instead. Each time we visited there, I’d say, “I could move down here.”

Then my mum died and we came into a bit of money, and Stewart was also made redundant. We’d been looking at land in the country for a couple of years before this, not for then but for the future, and never found anything. When mum was sick, Stewart saw this place, and we came down to have a look at it. We drove up the long driveway and knew this was our place. I loved it straight away.

We’d looked at other places but they were challenging; not the land itself but the actual location. We wanted the location to be close enough to facilities for our kids. But mostly, it was the internet becoming available in the country that made our move here possible. We thought Stewart could now work on his own yet still be connected to his clients. I knew I’d find work because I’d been working for schools, and I easily found part-time work as a teacher’s aid.

I love the country community. You go into a shop and people know you and you know them. I go places and I always bump into somebody I know. The community is really strong in that it does a lot for other people and that’s nice. The schools have been great. I love that everything is central in town. There are no traffic lights. There are no roundabouts. Unless a tree has fallen across the road or there’s a tractor in front of you, you can get into town easily. 

Most people who come down here, want to be here. Everyone who comes down from the city, within a year or two, change. They’re more casual. They care less about appearances. They don’t worry about wearing the latest fashion or owning the latest gimmick. At first, you miss the shops but now I don’t at all. I just buy my clothes in town. And you certainly don’t miss the crowds, cues or hustle-bustle.

My life experiences inspire me. One of the turning points in my life was when, as part of my vet studies, I had to do time on a farm. I went to a farm outside of Canberra and stayed with a family for five weeks. It was one of the things that said to me, You’ve got to get out on the land. They owned a sheep station and we went out on horseback every day. They had a traditional homestead and heated their water with wood. This was in the 1990s. The father was a third or fourth generation farmer but was really progressive. He wanted to do the best for his animals. I loved being out there.

Your upbringing also influences you a lot. My mum and I were really close and then the worst enemies. Mum did it pretty tough. She was into recycling and saving water. She loved animals and to collect firewood, and she loved being outdoors, so we did lots of things like that. She went out with a guy who was a fantastic carpenter and he was into nature and bush walking. We had some pretty amazing holidays when he was around. Then, my dad, when I finally got to know him, he was really into orienteering and sailing, so it was all outdoors. And he grew all his own vegetables.

Both my parents have passed and I talk to them a lot, still. I don’t know whether they’re there. I have those moments when I understand why my mum said some of the things she did, to me, and I think, Yer, you were right. I was so horrible to her as a teenager. If she was alive now I’d have the guts to tell her that she’d been right. Now I look back and think, If I knew then what I know now, things could have been so much better between us. But sometimes it takes getting to your forties, to realise it.

For me, being spiritual is being at one with the land. When I get out and walk around the paddocks, I have this amazing feeling like I’m in touch with everything. I never have that in the city. I get it when I go out for an early morning walk. Or I get it when I’m in the dusk. Here, we get some amazing storms and lightning, and I get the feeling then. It’s that getting in touch with nature’s force, like when it’s calm and beautiful and you see flocks of birds. You see beauty. That’s what I see as spirituality. You get an amazing feeling and you think, Wow! I’m pretty lucky to live here! 

Last year, we had this amazing lightning storm here that was so powerful, it affected me for days. The lightning started and we turned all the lights off in the house. And it went on for an hour. Two of my kids and I sat by the window watching it. Stewart and our other kid were in the city at the football. It was 8 o’clock at night in winter, and we got all the candles ready because we thought for sure we’d lose the power. There must have been lightning coming down every couple of minutes. It was like someone had stuck the most powerful floodlight on across the paddocks. I’d never seen the whole property lit up like that. Just this amazing light, and then it would go dark, and then it would come on again. And because we’re on top of a hill, we could see it all. It was nothing short of phenomenal. It was wow!

I have a sacred place but it’s not here. It’s in Canberra, where I grew up. I used to have this spot on top of a hill. It’s called a mount but it is really just a hill. I used to go up there a lot when I was a kid. I actually scattered some of my mum’s ashes there. She loved this spot too. The rest of her is in Ireland. From about twelve years old, when I was upset or needed to let go of my frustrations, I would run to the top of this hill and stand there and I could see all of Canberra. 

I used to sit there. And I still do this, every time I go back. It’s within ten minutes of my childhood home, but it’s isolated, and because of the steep incline very few people ever go up there. From this vantage, you can see everything below you; watch the traffic; watch people go about their daily lives. It’s like a meditation for me. I can get angry. I can cry. I can talk to myself up there. It’s my most special spot in the whole world, and I’ve never found another place like it, anywhere.

I believe happiness is doing something you like, even if it means making less money. I never feel like I don’t want to go to work. Whereas I used to feel like that all the time. My work is on the land and with the animals, every day, and also I do some hours at a local school, in a science lab. I could be making more money than I am by working as a vet, but I wouldn’t be happy. If you end up working in a job just for the money you end up being stressed and unhealthy. You just need to change your ways and learn to live with less. I could live in a tent if I had to and actually, I would be quite happy.

Well, I could pack a bag and head south to Lilli Pilli Lane for some extra inspiration, right about now! Thanks, Lisa for sharing how you came to live your dream. Also, for your beautiful spirituality through nature. We can all learn to recognise what makes us truly happy, and what is meaningful to our lives. It takes courage to believe we can make our dreams come true, and then effort – sometimes a lot of it. I admire anyone who in pursuit of their own happiness, betters the circumstances of others, as Lisa does with her animals and the land she cares for.

Have you ever thought about leaving the city for a simpler life in the country, producing your own food and becoming self-sufficient? What about being a carer of animals and the land? Perhaps, you’re actually living like this already. Please share what your lifestyle is like if you are. What’s the best thing about it? I’d love to know!

Linda Cull is the author of the book Where The Light Lives, visionary artist, and founder of Wilara Press|Spirit my way® – a blog covering spirituality, inspired creativity and transformative experiences at lindacull.com. Learn more about her here

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